It’s a day when I came home from work, there was a time when I coming back to an empty house. For me the empty house would fill me with some pleasure. It’s like some luxurious in the extra and happily breathe in the peace & quiet when you had a hard day (especially the load of works and facing traffic jam everyday). Just alone, nobody at house who communicating with me!!
So, finding myself alone at home, what should I do? I love being by myself. I grew up in an empty house and I like my own company. I turn off my mobile phone. No rings, no beeps and no calls, no email, no text, no notifications. A silent phone and nobody I care to call – just me by myself! I turn my CD – choose my playlist and I grab one book. Two hour later, I realize it’s dark and I put the book down, must be dinner time… I’m starving!
In the lonely hours like that – I don’t feel sorry for myself. It’s a huge difference about being alone and being lonely. I’m busy too and like to socialize; I have friends and long term lover. I really not alone, but I need some space and I like my lonely time. Life can be really simple. Some people choose to make life more complex. For me is more important to appreciate what we have in the moment – counting the blessing because our life can change in the second!
Being alone can be some advantage and now is time for enjoy me time……
“Sometime is good to be alone, but it is rarely good to be lonely” (unknown quotes)